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Anonymous

Dear God,

Thank you for all good you have done for me and my future & forever husband, we are very grateful for your blessings everyday life.

I feel angry and hurt for what happened because here I am, still cleaning up after everyone else. While other people in the house are able to do things, while they trashed my beautiful relationship with Daniel for housework.

Deep down I knew it was never going to change, as of the housework being left for me. I've missed out on going on so many dates with a man, doing simple everyday things together. Yet the people who been part of trashing my relationship with him, are able to get away with it.

Nobody else in my hometown really speaks to me, as they prefer my cousin's and uncle more. As people in society don't even talk to me, Daniel weren't from my hometown but he understood me. He would speak to me and made me feel like I matter.

I'm so angry, feel alone as have to clean up after everyone else. Yet they are able to go out, I'm a humble person but nobody is interested in speaking to me. Since I don't drink, wear Victoria Secret underwear and sleep around.

Some lads talk to me and make me feel better, which I know they mean well. Since they don't want me to be sad and upset. Yet they are either out of my hometown, where I'm not able to see them. Or they have a part of Daniel inside them, with the way they speak and talk to me.

All people should be treated as an individual and unique. Not a replacement for the man who I truly miss and not had the chance to build a beautiful relationship with. Since I've been robbed from having that, I really want to get married soon.

My cousin's and uncle are able to do this ...

- Older girl cousin is able to roll out of bed in the morning to get ready for work at the golf resort. Where she has been working at for the last 4 years now, see her boyfriend of 2 years on the sly and gets to do things.

- Older boy cousin is able to drive a car too, just like my older girl cousin can. Able to stop the night out every weekend, as to spend time with his girlfriend of nearly a year. Buy her presents, iron his own clothes and wear expensive aftershave to see her.

Not to mention that he gets the chance to go out for food too, every evening and has me doing his washing.

- Younger boy cousin is able to get the chance to go to work, buy new clothes, spend time with his girlfriend of 5 years and bring her over to the house every evening. Able to go out everywhere, to go on holidays and can also do things.

Then my uncle was able to go out for a date with a new woman to Costa Coffee on New Year's Eve. I got called a burden on Thursday 29th September 2022, as my mum has started the washing machine for the clothes.

As of course I'm always left to do the housework, NOBODY else helps or cares about the way I feel. The washing machine was making alot of noise, which woke him up and got annoyed.

As I was leaving the house, got called selfish and a burden. To get kicked out, as I'm too much to handle. Since I end up shrinking everyone's designer clothes, when I'm under a lot of pressure. To get all the housework done, as it falls on me.

Get told to slow down with the housework but I can't slow down. As I haven't got Daniel, to help me by being able to switch off. I've been left to suffer all by myself because nobody helps me or able to go out on dates.

I always express how I feel but just get told "You shouldn't feel this way and we have been over this." I'm sick and tired of being told to get over something what was taken from me and it's not my fault.

Why can't I get married? You know what else annoys me is I get told why don't I wear all my clothes. When I don't get the chance to go out to anywhere other than college and my volunteering.

This is also why I want to get married soon, because then I can always look and feel good in myself. Along with bettering myself to become a brilliant woman.

The housework has never changed, I can't believe that Daniel's mum and stepdad had put Daniel in no position but to leave me. When I'm still here, cleaning up after everyone else and people tell me to get over it.

Daniel made me look forward to a life beyond cleaning up after everyone else. Since everyone has such a problem with me, not letting me be a good "girlfriend" to a man. I want to get married, I know how to be a woman and getting angry nothing is happening to me.

Please let me get married, I have nobody in my hometown to talk and spend time with. When I come in from college or volunteering, I have to clean up after everyone else.

I wish to have a husband to go home to and know that he had cleaned the house up. To have done the laundry and I can just relax when I come in. While I also do the same for my future and forever husband.

All of my cousin's and uncle, Daniel's mum and stepdad get to switch off from busy day to day chores. Since they are all able to spend time with their special person or do things with their loved ones.

Yet a good woman like me is all on her own, cleaning up after everyone else and have to get the harder path than other people.

You know I have to take my phone calls outside of the house. I have days where I'm on the phone crying, as nobody listens to me or understands what I'm going through.

The person who I'm on the phone talking to says "You shouldn't conpare yourself to other people, with what they are doing. Just focus on yourself."

I know she means well but it's harder to not compare myself to other people. When the people in the same house get treated better than you do. As they are able to go out and to be seen as marvellous but nobody sees me as a good woman.

Nobody speaks to me in my hometown as they prefer my cousin's to me. Think that I'm boring and that nobody will be capable of loving a human being like me. This is why I didn't want Daniel to leave, as he was all I had.

Now I just feel like I have nobody at all and everyone else gets to be happy.

I wish that God would bless me with a man who will become my first and forever husband. To be his true love until the end, the love of his life, his best friend and soulmate all in one.

Days like this are where I wish that he was here and want to get married soon. Nobody is telling me anything, I've been left in the dark and get given dirty looks for wanting true love.

I wanted to tell Daniel all of this but it's always me who is the last one to do anything.

Just want to get married as soon as possible because I'm annoyed that everyone else is in the blessed season. While I'm STILL in the waiting season and know how to be a woman.

Received: January 5, 2023

Anonymous

My newborn daughter cries every time I try to hold her. Nobody will let me hold her or they hog her to where I can't. Or my MIL talks bad about me to her relatives when I want to hold my own baby...

I got into a car wreck today right after work. I wasn't faulted for it, but they're thinking about totaling my car & I've only had it a year & a half. I can't even afford another car right now, due to my savings being drained. I feel like I'll never have good savings again... I even wasted $4,000 on a certificate program that didn't get me a job & I wish I could get that money back somehow.

My boss keeps putting me with the women who hate me at my job & I'm too scared to say anything because he didn't even answer my text about it last week. I just quit a job this past April due to horrible gossipers who pushed me out the door, got me demoted, & took away my friendships over a woman who lied about me. I never got justice in that situation & I feel like I'll never get away from these women who despise me on the weekend crew especially.

Pray hard for my online commission site to gain customers, me to have TOTAL job security where I'm currently working at, my baby girl to bond with me and not cry around me, & for me to get a promotion at my job now. Also, please pray hard that my car will not be totaled & that we can salvage it. We really can't afford another car & our debt are too high. Even pray for our son's debts to be wiped away & to get justice in that situation as well. Help us Prayer warriors!

Received: January 5, 2023

Anonymous

The restoration of my marriage and the spiritual awakening of my husband and 2 sons

Received: January 4, 2023

Anonymous

Hello,

I've been unemployed since October, prayer for God to open the right door for my new job in a different occupation and more money with a stress-free, great work environment.

Thank you in advance Jesus

Amen

Received: January 4, 2023

Anonymous

Our family is going through a very tough battle. We know God will change the medical reports; God will lead the right people in our lives but it gets hard to look past the struggle some days. We need answers and it feels like this battle is never ending. We know our God will fix this in his perfect timing !

Received: January 4, 2023